Sunday, October 25, 2009

Change

All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward.
Ellen Glasgow

Change..yes it is this word which propelled a first time senator from the senate to the presidency of the most powerful nation on this world. Barack Obama!

He spoke of change and the power of this word.. he was talking about how it gives people hope , how there is spring after autumn and so on..In short - the positive way this word affects us..!!

I am going to speak of something different ....how people change in a negative way

From-"Dude u are my best friend..i need ur help" to "Who the fuck u think u are"..

From-"thanx for the help.." to "get lost"..and many more instances

this is what i am talking about..how people change and yes MR. Obama u are wrong..not all changes are good..!! and yes even i was wrong....

This is what hurts me most..the way ‘friends’ change after they have had what they wanted from u ..it's like being a prostitute people come use u and pay u ..!! ohh wait ..i forgot to mention something ..we even don't get paid..prostitutes atleast get paid...they are better than us.

If it happens once u think and say "well ..what went wrong in our 'friendship'.."

second time-"what the fuck happened"

third time-"shit..not again"

and it never happens again for the fourth time cos u stop believing in the word friendship and u stop believing in people....



Yes this is what i am talking about..Yes Mr. Obama you are wrong..all change is not for the better.



I don't have the answer to why this change occurs...but as someone has very wisely said.."some things are better left unsaid.."

some questions are better left un-answered.



We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of losing a friend, by what name do we call him? Here every language is silent and holds its peace in impotence.

Joseph Roux